Showing posts with label Older LGBT. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Older LGBT. Show all posts

Monday, April 20, 2020

Don't ask a question for which you know the answer already



Last night -- the 30th-something day of shelter in place -- I watched Chavela -- the documentary of the great Chavela Vargas. What treat! Then, I found out, this morning, that Almodovar had a similar night, a few weeks ago, in is home in Madrid.


Cliche it might be, but the universe is small.

Chavela defies labels -- she is not, or was not, a lesbian -- she and her friends corroborate this. She does not fit our current categories of LGBTQ. She lived in a different cultural language, one in which "don't ask a question for which you know the answer already" was the social norm. She was out, a womanizer, a recurrent drinking buddy with the guys, a a bit homophobic, and a queer heroine for many in Latin American and Spain.


She once thought a boy how to use a gun to make him macho, less feminine. She wanted to make him masculine. She rejected labels and applied them, at the sametime -- unable to escape them.


Thursday, September 15, 2016

A Niche, Demand, and a New Boom? But Can we Afford it?

 

Marketplace just published this feature, titled Niche in elder care: assisted living for LGBT seniors, on Stonewall Gardens in Palm Springs-- a new assisted living facility for LGBT seniors. The facilities, amenities, and, of course, location look fantastic. But what the piece does not tell you is the price tag: minimum monthly rate for a room: $2850 plus additional fees for special needs. 

Thursday, July 28, 2016

Oder it now! Queer Aging is Out

 I'm holding now the advance copies of Queer Aging! It looks fantastic.
Get yours @ Amazon. I'd love to see your own review --even one line-- on Amazon.

Thursday, September 10, 2015

The Aging Experience is not Equal

The aging experience is not equal across populations -- and it's not just about homophobia. Many older LGBT folks do not have access to the resources the "traditional" family provides to the old, and that we take for granted.

Listen to this new study, by our colleague Mark Williams at the University in Wisconsin, on the experiences of older LGBT people in Milwaukee.